Showing posts with label loss. Show all posts
Showing posts with label loss. Show all posts

07 June 2024

"REST IN PEACE"


An Original Collection of Provocative and Powerful Essay's by R. B. STUART. Her Work Begins and Ends at the Crux of Truth, Sorrow and Humor---Capable of Slicing Through Your Psyche and Piercing Your Heart


Rest in Peace
By R. B. STUART
Post Forty-Nine


To My Sweet Sister: 

Thank you for taking care of me as a baby. 
Thank you for sacrificing your childhood for us. 
Thank you for years worth of thoughtful momentos & gifts even if I was an ungrateful recipient!
I'm sorry that your life after Florida wasn't the most joyous, but who could have predicted.
I'm sorry that I couldn't have done more sooner.
And I'm sorry that most of your life was lived misunderstood.

I know you have Alex in your arms right now. 
That Karen has her arm around your waist telling you how beautiful you are. 
Mum is caressing your face with her hand. 
And Daddy has you on his lap.
I'm jealous you are with them already, but we'll join you soon.

Till then roll around in the warm sun, 
Tip toe across the clouds,
Sore with the wind,
And enjoy the freedom of lightness, and perfection.
While in the bosom of Heaven.



Love, Peace & Light  ---Always Rob xoxoxo

22 May 2024

"FAREWELL SISTA"


An Original Collection of Provocative and Powerful Essay's by R. B. STUART. Her Work Begins and Ends at the Crux of Truth, Sorrow and Humor---Capable of Slicing Through Your Psyche and Piercing Your Heart


FAREWELL  
By R. B. STUART
Post Forty-Eight


Nancy Pearl (May 22, 1952 - April 12, 2024) known around Revere, Charlestown, Lynn and Cambridge, MA, as her alter ego, "Pearl," the ever exuberant Karaoke songstress, died at 71 years old in an Arizona Medical Center of multi-organ failure.

A personality bigger than life, with a flair for the dramatics & a lover of holidays, with matching festive garb. Nancy was happy & bold, & partly misunderstood. She loved celebration, family, the ocean, children & her wishes for a convetional life as a wife, mother, with a "white picket fence" fell out of reach.

Always a giver, a friend to the homeless and battered women's causes, she was generous, even if kindness wasn't returned. Others came first. She saw the best in everyone. She lived life with gusto. And dreamed of bigger dreams then she could live, but it never stopped her.

A passionate devotee of Christianty, Nancy dedicated a portion of her life to Bible Study. 

She found her calling in Cosmetology as a Hairdresser and lived a quiet life. In the end, she was surrounded by her Adored brother & first childhood chum, Gary F. of AZ. Protective eldest sister Gail L. of NH. Devoted sister R. B. of CA. Beloved sister Dawn N. of Papua New Guniea. And Cherished baby sister Fran E. of FLA.

Nancy follows her late parents, father Irwin V. of  MA, mother Patricia T. of  NH, late sister Karen J. of MA, late son Alexander C. of MA, and late Aunt Nita M. of FLA.

She leaves behind her niece Jennifer L. of NH. A great neice, nephew and a great-great niece and nephew.

In lieu of flowers please donate to charities for Mental Illness in her Honor: RETHINK MENTAL ILLNESS (Rethink.org) or DEPRESSION & BIPOLAR SUPPORT ALLIANCE (DBSalliance.org).

08 November 2019

"SORROW, DEATH, LOSS"


An Original Collection of Provocative and Powerful Essay's by R. B. STUART. Her Work Begins and Ends at the Crux of Truth, Sorrow and Humor---Capable of Slicing Through Your Psyche and Piercing Your Heart


Reflection 
By R. B. STUART
Post Forty-Four



When my father died I was 6 and mourned for 15 years.

When my sister died I was 27 and wept day and night for 5 years.

Then when my mother died I was 42 and mourned for 1 year.

At different ages in our life, death effects us in ways that open our heart, and ripen us with understanding, compassion and empathy.

On a spiritual level your beautiful beloved can still hear and see you.

Will comfort you by visiting you in your dreams. 

While grieving, talk to them. Light candles daily. Locate a treasured item of theirs and have it available to you.

Smell her favorite perfume, scarf or blouse. 

Frame special moments of them in photos. 

This was your beloved, the pain and loss will pour out of you, and let that river of sorrow run free.

For one day, it will become a beautiful  tranquil pond in your heart as acceptance and understanding takes root.

And the memories will bring you something different and new; warmth, joy, understanding and wisdom.  

That their love footprint will always remain tucked in a crevice of your heart...and you will venture forth in this world creating a new life without them.

Thus is the human experience of life. Open your arms wide and embrace it. 

May Peace Be With You